Toddler World

I understand it is a constructed term, but the "toddler" world I am immersed in is another level of a child's connection to the universe. But then she gets parented, socialized, educated, employed; seems that all the constructed institutions to guarantee a successful and productive life...only if you are of a certain stripe, strip those very sacred and vital connections away from her. How do we provide that safe, nurturing, engaging environment for every child to build the world we want?